This is certainly a loaded question. We need to be quite clear that there is one — and only one — legitimate Christian outlet for sexual energy: a Christian marriage. The apostle Paul is
quite explicit about this. Marriage to a fellow believer is God’s remedy for the temptation toward sexual
immorality of all sorts.
As stated, our question of the day can only be answered one way: You can’t. If that sounds a tad draconian, perhaps a little perspective is in order.