This is not a subject I write about easily, but it’s one to
which I believe many Christians can relate.
Giant, massive disclaimer:
By what I’m about to say, I am not in any way judging or condemning the efforts
of serious Christian parents or spouses I know or know about. Still less would I pass any
judgement on the parenting and relationship efforts of Christians in circumstances I don’t fully
understand.
I am constantly
astounded at my own inability to accurately size up other people’s business.
What regularly throws me for a loop are these little factoids that pop up in
conversation that make you completely reverse your previous set-in-concrete
assessment of someone you know, like “Did you know she has a brain tumor?” (No,
really, I’m not making this up.)
But since I have very
little idea who reads these thoughts other than immediate family members, believe
me: I have no particular axe to grind and no particular family situations in
mind.
I’m just thinking here.