Many years ago, a man who served the Lord in a local church I visited regularly (and whose lunchtime
hospitality I had enjoyed at least once) suddenly and dramatically left his
wife for a younger woman. He was sixty-something at the time, if I remember correctly,
which struck me as a strange age for a man to succumb to a sexual sin of which
there was no previous evidence in his life.
I puzzled that one over for a while. While it’s not impossible that the fellow’s heart and mind
were full of secret lusts and unrequited fantasies going back years, I think it
rather unlikely. Rather, it seems quite possible to me that he got blindsided by
a temptation out of left field in an area in which he had little experience.
Or, as Hall and Oates put it, “An unguarded minute has an accident in it.”
It seems to me we have biblical precedent for that.