Love is a two-stage project: there is the declaring of it and then the hard work of actually doing it.
It is impossible to effectively communicate love without doing both.
The order of
operations is not terribly important, but both elements are critical.
Now of course declarations of love on their own may mislead
us and require us to do a little contextual reinterpretation. A classic Canadian rock tune from 1970 made the point that we often say “I
love you” when we actually mean something else entirely.