“What should be the focus of a Christian funeral?”
I always remember attending a Roman Catholic funeral at which a sobbing relative hurled herself on the casket, her howls of grief painfully and embarrassingly audible in an almost-empty room with high ceilings and a lot of stained glass. She probably lay there for less than a minute, but it seemed like forever.
I’ve never seen that sort of thing at an evangelical memorial, but you can never rule it out.