A few unasked-for observations triggered by watching Christians attempt to edify one another on social media:
Observation 1: The frequency with which the words “That’s
not very Christ-like” are employed is inversely proportional to the
speaker’s grasp of what being like Christ actually involves.
Hey, I’m all for the occasional stern rebuke, having
benefited from quite a few of them over the years, but for a word of correction
to carry real moral authority, it kinda has to, well ... ring true. Lies, misrepresentations and insults don’t prick the conscience; the Holy Spirit does.
If you have never read the Gospels or have only managed to commit
to memory the well-known bits about love and forgiveness, drawing an unfavourable comparison to Someone you don’t actually know very much about is probably not
your best go-to line.
Observation 2: The spiritual condition
of the recipient of a word of exhortation has more to do with its effectiveness
than the actual content.
As the writer of Proverbs ably put it:
“Do not reprove a scoffer, or he will hate you;reprove a wise man, and he will love you.”
On the other hand, the merest suggestion delivered in the sweetest and gentlest of tones reliably
raises the hackles of the chronically resistant and sets their teeth on edge:
“Are you trying to imply something about ME?”
Observation 3: Politeness and goodness are easily confused.
Elijah was generally good, but not always polite. That whole
“Cry aloud, for he is a god” speech to the prophets of Baal is sarcastic to the point of serious snark: “Either
he is musing, or he is relieving himself, or he is on a journey, or perhaps he
is asleep and must be awakened.” Um, yes, but Elijah, wouldn’t those prophets
of Baal be more inclined to worship Jehovah if you modeled sweet reasonability
for them?
Okay, probably not.
Now we must concede that Elijah was not a Christian; he was
an Israelite prophet operating under Old Testament rules of engagement.
Further, he was dealing with the acolytes of a false god, not with fellow believers.
Still, a similar tone to Elijah’s is discernible in those apostles who confronted
New Testament hypocrisy, not to mention in the way the Lord Jesus dealt with
religious hypocrites. The “whitewashed” dig was not originally Pauline, and the apostle was not the first to direct it at the presumptive Jewish religious authorities. Further, the problem with his use of the insult was not that it was impolite, but that he inadvertently publicly cursed God’s high priest.
And as to correcting even genuine believers with a bit of acid, let’s not forget “Get behind me, Satan”. When their offence is major and the correction is absolutely vital to drive home for their own good, a bracing dismissal can be a tonic, and not evidence of an uncharitable spirit.
And as to correcting even genuine believers with a bit of acid, let’s not forget “Get behind me, Satan”. When their offence is major and the correction is absolutely vital to drive home for their own good, a bracing dismissal can be a tonic, and not evidence of an uncharitable spirit.
Observation 4: Despite our society’s obsessive cultivation
of self-esteem, making someone feel bad about themselves is not a sin.
In fact, sometimes shame is critical to our learning curve.
When Job declares, “Now my eye sees you; therefore I despise myself, and repent in dust and ashes,” his self-abasement is quite
appropriate. Though God later commends him for speaking of God “what is right”
and restores his fortunes, he does not pause on this occasion to reassure Job
that since he’s had a really bad week or two, faultfinding and contending with God are
perfectly understandable, and no harm done.
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