“If God knows I’m hurting, why doesn’t he help me?”
The answer to the first part of this question is perfectly straightforward: God knows. Of course he knows. He’s God. How could he not know? “You discern my thoughts from afar,” wrote David. “Even before a word is on my tongue, behold, O Lord, you know it altogether.” The only being in the universe with full knowledge of the human condition is humanity’s Creator.
The second part’s a little tougher to answer. There are just so many possibilities ...